Trinitarian Love


by Michael Lawrence in Biblical Theology in the Life of the Church pg 147

"For some of us, it is easy to think that God and his love must revolve around me and my problems, and we evaluate his love based on how we feel he's doing at loving us. But God's love was perfect before we ever arrived on the scene, and it will remain perfect long after we leave. The eternal and therefore prior love of the Father and the Son for each other reminds us that at the end of the day, life and love is not about me. Though the love of God for me is real, it is also derivative, an overflow of this most fundamental love within the Trinity itself."

What did you expect?? by Paul Tripp pg 235

Grace gives your marriage a lifetime warranty. What this means is that God will give you everything you need to be what you are supposed to be and do what he has called you to do in your marriage. But you must do it. His grace enables, reconciles, restores, and repairs. His grace teaches you and changes you. His grace gives you what you need to ask forgiveness and to forgive. His grace empowers you to overlook minor offenses and target what is truly important. His grace helps you see with greater and greater wisdom. His grace gives you strength to continue when you feel like quitting. His grace gives you strength to resist temptation and to turn and do what is right. His grace rescues you from your obsession with self-love and welcomes you to joyous wok of loving another. His grace enables you to be good and angry at the same time. When grace works a commitment of God's kingdom and righteousness in your heart, you will be angry at what sin does to you, to those you love, and to the situations in which you live, and that anger will motivate you to be a tool of change. His grace causes you to be committed to giving grace. His grace is a marriage warranty, because it gives you what you need, but what you get is grace in motion.

What Does a Healthy Marriage Look Like?

I have had the opportunity to take a marriage counseling course with Winston Smith this semester. Here is quick video that entails some of what we have been learning.