I have found these series of questions to help me in this pursuit when I have acted in unbelief. Recently the Lord has exposed the sin of impatience. Plugging this sin into these questions has helped begin the pursuit of a growth in grace.
1.) What is the situation?
2.) What was the nature of your evil deed? (ex: anger, dishonesty, fear, evil speach etc.)
3.) What evil filled your heart? (ex: what do you wrongly believe that leads to this sin?)
4.) Who is the Lord? (what truth about God is antithetical to your sin)
5.) What good fills your heart? (what gratitude concerning God should fill your heart specifically when you are most likely to sin)
6.) What good can you do instead of evil?
these questions were adapted from Tim Lane @ the CCEF